How Inspiring Your Child at Home Can Lead to a Lifetime of Learning

Apr 12

Reading Time: 2 mins

mother helping daughter with math homework

Most parents have been there.

Whether it’s a child who avoids math or doesn’t want to read, it’s common to experience pushback when our children don’t feel successful.

Young children are inherently drawn to learning. According to the New York Times, the onset of kindergarten may negatively impact the natural learning process by teaching children early on that the result matters more than the journey it takes to get there. In addition, children are introduced to test scores and grades around this time in a young life which can shift a child’s focus away from the learning process.

What do we do when our child says they don’t want to learn?

While it’s wonderful to reward your child for their achievements, it’s more important to help them enjoy the process of getting there. There are many ways to weave learning into their daily lives.

Learn in front of your children.

Children emulate their parents. Express optimism when you succeed or falter at developing new skills and hobbies. Share your joy as you find success and show resilience when you struggle. Better yet, invite your child to try a new hobby!

Help children remember answers by asking them questions.

This article from livescience.com talks about the benefits of answering questions when it comes to learning. When someone asks us “why,” for example, we must fully consider a concept before answering.
The extra brain power put into verbal explanation helps us to remember it!

Be curious about everyday life!

Ask your children questions about the world around them.
Go for a walk in nature and observe the colors, shapes, sizes, textures, and smells.
If your child asks a question and you don’t know the answer, offer to visit your local library to uncover mysteries together.

Point out relationships.

Learning is more desirable when we understand its purpose. For example, we use math and reading in baking, budgeting, creating music, playing sports, gardening, and many other activities. Take advantage of this! When you notice these correlations, point them out.

Encourage your child to view the world with curious eyes, and enjoy watching them grow!